Visiting Teaching January 2012

My husband and I were having our Family home evening tonight, and he was sharing with me some of the messages he has read in this months Ensign. For some reason, I found it surprising that he read the Visiting Teaching message, and even more surprising, that he pointed out to me a quote, that didn't jump out at me when I first read the message. He read to me this quote from Eliza Snow, the 2nd General R.S. President:

“A teacher … should surely have so much of the Spirit of the Lord, as she enters a house to know what spirit she meets in there. … Plead before God and the Holy Ghost to get [the Spirit] so that you will be able to meet that spirit that prevails in that house … and you may feel to talk words of peace and comfort, and if you find a sister feeling cold, take her to your heart as you would a child to your bosom and warm [her] up.”

When my husband read this to me, immediately my mind was drawn to some past visiting Teaching visits, where the sisters that I taught needed what Sister Snow said..."peace and comfort" and as she describes in a different way... I think she means "A HUG". I thought about the instances where my sisters needed a hug, and I knew just how important that a timely visit from me really was for them. They needed a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, someone to commiserate with and words telling them that they aren't alone. I am so grateful for the Spirit opening my heart to listen, and know what those needs were.

I too have had need for a hug from my visiting teachers from time to time, and I have felt so blessed to have been given some caring sisters to provide me the watch care I need. We all have need of watch care, and how blessed we are when we have sisters whom we have developed a friendship with and know that they really do care when they say they do. Not only do they care, but they act upon those feelings and provide the watch care that is needed.

I will be the first one to admit that I have not always been able to develop the kind of relationship with all of my visiting teachers that I should have. Trust has always been a huge issue with me, and I personally need to feel that I can trust that when my Visiting Teacher says she wants to be there for me, or help me, or bring in a meal or whatever, that she isn't just saying it, but she really means it. Believe me, I know the difference. I want to know that when my Visiting Teachers leave me with a hug, that I feel their warmth and friendship, that our spirts have connected, and I and know that they genuine in their watch care of me.

This is probably one of the greatest reasons that I am doing what I do with this blog. I have such a strong testimony of the value and importance of good Visiting Teachers, that if I can encourage anyone who reads this blog, to go the extra mile, or to understand and gain the testimony of her own, of the importance of the watch care given as a Visiting teacher, then I will have accomplished something great on behalf of my Heavenly Father.

My Ward has a phenomenal Relief Society President. She is tireless, constantly filled with love and fervor, and absolute zeal in her calling. Every single Sunday when she takes a moment to bolster up the sister in Relief Society, I feel like I have been spiritually fed through her words. She lives every word that comes out of her mouth. She says, and she does, if you know what I mean. I know how much time she spends in watching over the sisters in our ward. I know because my husband is the Bishop and she is at my home or on the phone very often discussing needs, concerns or whatever about the sisters she has stewardship over, with the Bishop.

One occasion in Relief Society, she was sharing how important those little papers are to her, that are shown in the prior post. After you have finished reading this post, scroll down and see the "Caring that Counts" page. She says that when these reports are turned into her monthly, she pours over them and it allows her to really know the sisters and their needs, and act upon meeting the needs of those who have things going on in their lives that need care given. These little papers, which are essentially feedback from vigilant Visiting Teachers, are so important because no matter how much time she spends in her calling, she can't know everything, unless we, her Visiting Teachers, do our part. So just how important do you think Visiting teachers are? Without them, how many sisters needs wouldn't be met,just because nobody knew about them?

Anyway, I hope you appreciated my thoughts, and perspective on Visiting teaching for this month. Enjoy! Katie G.

P.S. A little note about the photo that I have used for this blog post. When I began searching for the right photo, I was absolutely drawn to this one, and it was from "The Daughters of my Kingdom" book that our church recently published and distributed to all the women of the Church. Here is the link to that wonderful book and if you have not yet taken the opportunity to do so, read it! http://lds.org/relief-society/daughters-in-my-kingdom/manual/chapter-7?lang=eng
I think the reason I liked it so much was because one of my sisters I teach looks just like the woman who is giving the Watch Care to the elderly woman. Ironically enough, this sister is also providing care for her own mother, and I imagined this picture continually as she cared for her own mother.