Friday, January 27, 2012
Visiting Teaching
I just had the loveliest visit from my Visiting Teachers today and I thought I would share my experience with you. First of all, I need to clarify something with you. I have not always had the kind of Visiting Teachers visiting me, that I needed to have. I also have to admit that at one time in my life, I asked to NOT have Visiting teachers come to me for a variety of reasons, even though I have always been active in this church. But this time, I do have them, and I am so grateful. Today, we had a great visit just talking about different things, and one of this partnership had to go to work, and left. The other half of the partnership stayed and we visited and visited and I felt loved.
She sincerely asked me to tell her what I wanted in a Visiting Teacher. From the experiences that I have had throughout my life, both good and not so good, I shared with her many of them that led me to know exactly what I hoped for in my Visiting Teachers. With a tear in my eye and tender feelings surfacing, I told her that bottom line with me was that I wanted to know that my Visiting teachers really want to come to my home each month to visit me. I want them to actually care for me and develop a genuine friendship. I said that when my Visiting Teachers left our visit, that when they said, "let me know if I can do anything for you", that they really mean it, and aren't just saying it.
I don't need all that I do for the ladies that I teach or even the things that I display on my blog, but I do need and want a trusted friend. I am so pleased to say that I believe that these two sweet sisters, are what I have hoped to have as Visiting Teachers. I believe that they really do care for me, and that if I needed a listening ear, or if I needed to reach outside of my own family for help in any way, that I could call on them. Now how nice is that?
I told this friend of mine, that I am the kind of Visiting teacher that I want to have, and that is important to me. I believe that everyone wants and needs to be thought about and watched over. I also know that unless women can understand just how important Visiting Teaching is in the lives of LDS women, that many will feel the way that I use to feel. NOW, I hope that these sisters don't get reassigned anytime too soon, because I love to be able to look forward to their visits, and know that our friendship will continue to develop over time.
Sisters, I have been very frank about my feelings and vision for Visiting Teaching. I have opened my heart and expressed my feelings that have been hidden for years. It's sort of like I told my Visiting teachers today, the reason I began writing my Visiting Teaching blogs, was because I hoped to promote the good efforts and maybe motivate sisters to understand the importance and vision of what this wonderful calling is all about. I began my google group "Extraordinary Visiting Teachers" because of wanting sisters to share uplifting ideas and conversation and get the job done. I hope that all of you will catch the vision and be the Visiting teacher that your sisters need in their life, remembering it isn't the numbers or percentages that really matter in this work, but it is the friendshipping, love and service that you provide. Watch care, that is what it is all about and Sister Julie Beck said it all in the following quote taken from this months Visiting teaching message:
"Through visiting teaching, we provide watchcare by contacting each sister, sharing a gospel message, and seeking to know her and her family's needs. “Visiting teaching becomes the Lord’s work when our focus is on people rather than percentages,” explains Julie B. Beck, Relief Society general president. “In reality, visiting teaching is never finished. It is more a way of life than a task. Faithfully serving as a visiting teacher is evidence of our discipleship.”
Lives can be changed and hearts softened through Visiting Teaching! Many women who had fallen away are now back into this marvelous church because Visiting teachers kept coming. The time that you take away in doing your Visiting teaching will come back to you again and again. I know too that when we meet our Lord one day and when he asks us the accountability questions, and in particular..."And how did you do with your Visiting Teaching", I want to be able to look Him in the eye and say .... Lord, I did my best, and I loved and cared. I can only hope that He will answer... "Well done, thou good and faithful servant, and inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my bretheren, ye have done it unto me. "
It is my prayer that you will become a disciple of Jesus Christ as you minister over the sisters that you teach.
Enjoy! Katie G.
General Conference Talks
General Conference Reports
Proceedings of Recent General Conferences
What shall we give?
An Apostles Easter Thoughts on Christ
This short video is an Important message from the mouths of our Prophets!
My broken wagon wheel, hath bit the dust!
July 6 - Pioneer Cooking
Click on this link to take you to the Pioneer Recipes:
http://visitingteachingsurprisedocuments.blogspot.com/2009/07/pioneer-recipes.html
I was also thinking that if you were to copy some of these recipes and print them off, that might be a fun handout for the Sisters you Visit Teach!
July 2nd - Diana Lucina Spicer Block
Visiting Teaching Tips, handouts and Ideas
For many years, I have been creating very cute and fun things to take to the ladies I Visit Teach. I have shared from time to time, my ideas with others and they have really appreciated them. I decided that since I do these anyway, I would start doing one every month and then post it on this blog to share with anyone for their Visiting Teaching. I do need to make a disclaimer.... the ideas, thoughts, stories, graphics etc. used are created by me and they are not in any way official LDS Church quotes, handouts or ideas. They are my creations or others as noted, except for the quotes that will come directly from the Monthly Visiting Teaching message found in the Ensign. Also, many thanks to the talented designers of the digital paper and elements that I use to create the beautiful artwork, and handouts you see on my blog.
You can go to http://www.lds.org/ and look up and even print the monthly message if you do not have your own Ensign magazine subscription in English or to choose to read the Liahona or Ensign in a different language go to http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=03103c7ff44f2010VgnVCM1000001f5e340aRCRD&locale=0.
For Spanish you can go to http://www.sud.org.es/
I highly recommend you get your own subscription because you will find a wealth of really good & wholesome, moral reading, that you can't find anywhere else. If you go to http://www.lds.org/ and click on "Gospel Library" then click on "Magazines" you can order your own Ensign, Liahona, New Era, or Friend magazines.
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"Returning to the Past" A Relief Society Activity Idea
Dear Katie,
I just found your blog. It is so great. I love the idea of the Hearts of Angels. I am trying to figure out how we can use it for our VT conference and incorporate some of the things for our VT interviews. I am a new R/S president and all these things we have to do throughout the year are a little overwhelming. I love all of you ideas. So much work involved, thank you for being willing to share with all of us! I would love anything else you could pass my way.
WE had the thought earlier to use a theme of "Returning to the past" for our activities this year. So all of your old-fashioned pictures will be great to use as invites and handouts.
You might be interested in the idea we had for our B-Day dinner. We always have a progressive dinner in December to the homes of different sisters. We divide them up into about 5 smaller groups and go around to the different sisters homes in the ward. Because of the weather we cancelled it and had it at the church. We decided to do it for our B-Day dinner instead when the weather would be better. We are having the women bring a sack lunch with them and to wear something old, like a grandmothers broach or shawl, or to dress up in the time of the 1800's, and to bring a pint jar with a lid. We will have the sisters make lemonade at the first house and take with them in the jar that they brought, and then go to the next house. At the last house we will have and old fashioned cake to serve like apple walnut cake or something like that.
We still have some details to work out but at the end each member of the presidency will be at a different home and will share a prepared script. It will be written as if they were at the very first R/S meeting when the prophet Joseph Smith organized the R/S with just a handful of women.
Anyway, thank you for sharing what you have! You have a great talent!
Stacey McClellan - Blackfoot, Idaho
SELF RELIANT SISTERS BLOG HAS A GREAT ACTIVITY ABOUT GARDENING WITH KIDS - go to http://selfreliantsisters.blogspot.com/ It is well worth the time and a terriffic idea as Spring is just around the corner! Here is a tiny bit of information that you will see at the site.....
Gardening with Kids has great tips on getting kids started with gardening. Give your child some space; literally! Kids loving having spaces that are all their own, whether it`s their own desk area in the house, or the tent they've created with chairs and blankets in the family room. The same is true for gardening. Dedicate a small plot of the garden just for them. Put a fancy border around it, perhaps purchase one of the stepping stone making kits found at crafts stores in which they can mold their name and make their hand print.
Let them join you at the nursery. Let your kids know you value their opinion. Ask them which kinds of plants, flowers, and vegetables they like. Explain what will work well in your garden and what won't.
Give them (limited) choices. While you're at the nursery, ask them if they'd like pansies or petunias, marigolds or zinnias. This will give them the feeling of power without letting it get out of control.
Remind them money doesn't grow on trees. With older children discuss the budget. Let them help select seeds and blossoming plants at the nursery - and turn it into a math lesson. Let your child do the money calculations; they can tell you when the money runs out.
Let your child do what he will (especially if you have a preschooler). Let him dig, explore, play with bugs. You may be tempted to steer your child in another direction (like actually watering or weeding his garden), but this is a great way for your child to explore this exciting new universe.
Plan, plan, plan. If you have older children, say 8 or 9 or older, let them plot out their own garden on paper. Provide him or her with graph paper, pencils and seed catalogs. Give them a group of flowers and vegetables from which to choose, and then let them draw out their garden.
Get them their own gardening tools. Nothing will motivate your little gardener more than having her own little shovel, her own gardening gloves, and her own watering pail. And don't forget those bright colored rubber boots. You need to go to the site and explore all the rest of the links and ideas.
2 comments:
Wonderful post!!! I have had the need to ask the sisters I visit... what is it they need from me and to allow me to be there for them if they need me... but the words never come out. I want to make my calling as a visiting teacher a REAL one. I have had wonderful visiting teachers myself.. as they inspire me... so has your blog and your postings! Thank You!!!
Thank you for sharing that sweet experience with us, your readers. I hope you will continue to be blessed with the VTers that you need. VTing is such a wonderful opportunity that I feel too few of us take full advantage of. It can be a force for good in the lives of our sisters.
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